12 LAA promises
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I have a new sense of freedom because I am letting go of the past.
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I am hopeful about my future relationships.
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I can be attracted to someone without falling in love overnight, and I can fall in love without obsessing.
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If love does overwhelm me, I do not act out in addictive ways.
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I can tell the difference between fantasies and reality.
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I do not have to control the ones I love nor let them control me.
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I experience relationships one at a time and I do not get involved with “unavailable” people.
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If my basic needs are not being met, I can end my relationship.
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I can leave anyone who is abusing me either verbally or physically.
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I do not do for others what they should be doing for themselves.
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I love myself as much as I love others.
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I look to my Higher Power for strength, guidance, and the willingness to change.